7 Things to Do When You're With Your Lady

I'm not talking about just being with a lady like with her at a bar or just hanging out. Instead, I'm conveying about a relationship here -- something that comes with intimacy. So, this is for you guys out there who value their beloved girlfriend and/or wife. And, believe it or not,  this is coming from a simple big guy like me, okay? However, I'm not saying that I'm a love guru or whatsoever. I'm too far to be even one. Anyway, I bet it takes more than 7 things if it was from a woman's perspective. Listen up men: We were born for this. It's that we have spent our whole life in training without us even noticing it. You will surely get what I mean if you read through the end. As you may...

1. Give Her The Baby Hook

"Aww! You're so adorable"

First up is giving her a chance to baby you from time to time. Let her take care of you, man. Trust me, ladies love it when you let them feel that you need them; it's an innate desire for them to do such. They like this peculiar way of showing affection, and only through your appreciation would this even be successful. However, don't abuse them. Don't you ever treat them as if your mother or much worst, your personal maid. You know how capable women are, and you don't want things to be chaotic.

2. Just Keep it Real 

Love is not defined by holding hands while walking (HHWW).

Second is be like a toddler and let her play with you like a little child. This will make her feel that she is making you happy without her being naked. Now, I'm not pertaining to the literal meaning; it's more of the figurative one. Keep things real and passionate with her -- don't fake it. Just like how a (decent)  kid is when playing. As much as possible, make every moment with her fun and true. Most, if not all, of women nowadays are gradually losing grip with their respective relationships. It is because their men don't know how to value their innocence. Start being a kid again and you'll see the difference it'll make. Relationship is not supposed to be synthetic.

3. Do the "Dennis the Menace" 

"I can be a tough amiable guy someday" 

Third is giving your queen a pinch of your mischievous yet awesome side. By the way, I'm not talking about a mischief that will make her cry, but something that is of a playful way. Sometimes, in any other way, it's good to have a little twist in every thing that you both do. Being perfect is just enough to overlook loopholes. This will make the relationship more exciting and full of surprises in a way.

4. The Swagging Swagger 

"I'm a swag enough, doll?"

Fourth one is to be like a teenager, and give her a dose of that swag in you. Just a little bit though, no proper girl would appreciate too much swag. You don't want her to see Chris Brown in you, right? Or, if you do the opposite, she'll see her strict and standardized dad in you. Well, if his dad is as cool as James Dean that would be great. Hence keep it at a medium level -- just enough to keep the wheel turning. With this, she will feel young, wild and free -- not confined.

3. The "Robert Downey Jr." Persona

Sometimes, you need to have that hair to be a true gentleman.

Thirdly, which you should always and always keep in mind, don't ever forget to be a man and have the style. Dress up well when both of you are at a party and/or on a date, and be a pillar of manliness. Or, if you meet her parents, be keen enough to put some decent clothes on. Sometimes, it's just right for us, men, to act and dress neat, clean and professional. Although this doesn't mean that you have to suit up, but be dressed for the occasion, at least. This will make her feel well-protected, and proud to have such a dashing, sexy guy like you by her side.

2. Have the Classy Gentleman License

"Martha, do I look manly now?"

Next one is very important too: Be a gentleman and have that class. True that most of us men know how to dress well, if the third point above doesn't coincide, but has no clear understanding of what a gentleman is. In fact, we have our own definition of a closet. However, we often forget to bring that class within which makes it hard for a girl to decipher our distinctions. Women prefer to be with a man who look rugged yet gentleman enough to uphold a classy individuality. Be the one who will make her feel respected and taken care of. Let her feel that she chose the right guy to be her partner... for life.

1. Be a Lover Boy

No, I don't mean for you to be like Edward Cullen. WTH!

Finally, you should be the partner that she really deserves, and would make her happy for the rest of her life. It's not about her making you happy, but you doing what you can to not let her feel miserable. Women is, by essence, a bearer of beauty and affection. Whether you like it or not, they know more about love than us, men. But, as far as women do this to us, they certainly need to be reciprocated somehow. Thus we shall pay them with love and respect, which are very vital indeed. Nevertheless, This goes the same for the ladies out there. In this way both of you will have an excitingly awesome and full of love, not lust, relationship.